Perfect Pet Connection in Cape Coral FL

Erica Schivinski, RN, Certified Master Life Coach

Cape Coral Area Cape Coral, FL 33914 phone: (239) 849-0351
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
As a Registered Nurse for many years I appreciate the fragility of life and embrace the art of compassion and nurturing humans. However, as I grew spiritually and emotionally I yearned for more, I wanted to intertwine my passion for people with my devotion and love for animals. I started this new mission simply by volunteering with my therapy dog at the local hospital on my days off, sharing joy and words of encouragement to critically ill patients. Then one morning I turned on the television and saw DavidEssel talking passionately about Life Coaching, I was intrigued, so I called to inquire and two days later signed up for the course. I quickly grasped the concept of life coaching and was able to genuinely conceive the art of listening, while asking open ended questions and being congruent with oneself while maintaining a positive outlook on life. I challenged myself by pursuing a Master’s Level Certification as a Life Coach and embraced a new peacefulness and true happiness that poured from within.


Once I completed my certifications, I wondered daily how and when would I start coaching people? Days turned into weeks and I began to despair, even though I was still utilizing all the skills I learned in various capacities. Skills improved daily such as a deeper level of open communication and better listening with my husband, friends and even co workers. I began acknowledging everyone’s inner beauty and uniqueness as well as sharing words of positive encouragement to anyone I came in contact with. This new found outlook definitely made a difference in my life, because I noticed people gravitating toward me with smiles and an uncanny openness, willingness and desire to talk and interact.


While learning the ways of life coaching-one of the concepts that stood out to me the most during classes and seminars was to be “open and receptive to everything around you and remove the tunnel vision“. Then it hit me like a ton of bricks…people had been asking me for advice and help with their pets for years! All of a sudden, everything started falling into place. For example, when I was volunteering with my amazing little Pomeranian, Foxy, people started asking me to help train their dogs to be so well behaved, even nurses started asking me to go out and pick the perfect pet for their family and help teach it manners and basic obedience. If it had not been for life coaching I never would have acknowledged the potential for truly obtaining my passion, my niche… and now today I am opening my very own unique company called Perfect Pet Connection.

My company is truly the essence of who I am, I am coaching people to train their pets and matching individuals and families with the most compatible and perfect pet for their situation. In addition, I am offering grievance services, coaching people through difficult times and enabling them with the tools to effectively cope with the loss of their beloved pet. All of the services I offer require accountability on the part of the potential pet owner as well as writing assignments, journaling, and of course constant contact for reassurance and motivation. My innate ability to connect with animals and humans has lead to me to an unsurpassed place of fulfillment and happiness. And although their were many bumps in the road and I spent countless hours learning how to start a new business, I know the hard work is all worth it on this amazing journey of life. I will continue on my path of personal growth and professional success by following my true passion helping people connect with pets, hence the name the Perfect Pet Connection.

Monday, February 23, 2009

Many are aware of the physical and medical benefits of owning a pet, such as a reduction in blood pressure and cholesterol, fewer visits to the doctor, even an increase in physical activity and exercise. But what you may not know is that pets can also improve our emotional and mental well-being; reduce anxiety levels, fight depression, enhance family life and childhood development. In fact, a growing body of published scientific research shows that having an animal companion-cats and dogs in particular- improves physical and emotional well-being.

 

Anyone who has ever cared for an animal companion understands their role in our overall health as they offer unconditional love and attention, they make us laugh, relax us and divert us from daily concerns and stressors. Research has documented many psychological benefits of pet ownership. The first advantage is the reduction in loneliness, not only because they provide companionship, but they also often persuade human contact, interaction and socialization. This happens in various capacities for instance taking your dog to the park, frequenting pet stores and numerous veterinarian appointments. In addition, studies prove positive effects from Therapy Dog Programs within hospital settings or nursing homes which are credited with enabling patients to reach out beyond their own pain and isolation and start caring about the world around them again. All of these amazing and positive impacts on critically ill or depressed patients are simply from the presence or touch of a pet, even from an effortless wag of a tail.

 

It is proven that owning a pet also fights against depression and helps us cope with stress. Research shows that a pet can serve as an anti-depressant, increasing the release of endorphins and other hormones tied to pleasure receptors in the brain. A study of breast cancer patients conducted at the University of Warwick in England found that pets can provide valuable support for women coping with cancer. Researchers found that in addition to tactile comfort, pets provided a relationship that was unaffected by the presence of the serious illness. Psychological studies have also found that most pet owners view their pets as family members and enhance the quality of life and minimize tension within the family unit. One survey of U.S. Families found that pets were of great importance during personal or family illness, death of friends and family members and even family crisis.

 

Most recently, research has linked family ownership of a pet with high self esteem among young children and teen-agers, especially in cognitive development. In addition, children with pets at home score significantly higher on empathy and prosocial skills such as speech, writing and poetry than non-pet owners. These studies only scratched the surface of the growing body of scientific research that has been conducted about the beneficial effects animals have on our physical, emotional and mental well-being to both adults and children. Man’s “best friend” has sure proven his loyalty and devotion to the human race in unperceived ways never thought possible.

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