Sunday, October 04, 2009
Men vs. Women, an emotional balancing act, before we can really grasp or understand the depth into this, we have to first explain a little female 101. For any men who might be out there reading this, communication is the key to a happy relationship with a woman. Mind you, a woman will expect you to know what she is thinking and to tell you what you are thinking, but, that is because you haven’t given her anything to keep her thoughts to herself…I have had so many clients and women in general that I have spoken to about this problem, they have said “If he would only talk about it, share with me what he’s feeling, call!!!” Now I am not a man so therefore my opinion is that, mine, but I will say in my observation of men, they have something to teach us women. And that is selfishness, you go it! Women in general go through life thinking about the other person, how they will feel, react, understand or whatever. We spend our time concerned with the taking care of others, rather than ourselves. Men on the other hand are just the opposite, they are concerned with #1 (themselves first) preservation of the species. It is an after thought to them to think about what you are thinking or feeling. The statement that is generated in the heat of a discussion is “Why didn’t you say that in the first place or I didn’t know you felt that way?” Communication is key. A relationship is made up of two people and in turn takes the two to enhance and enrich that said relationship. Working toward this goal is what we all strive to do and yet an important element is in the understanding of our differences. We have different hard wiring in our brain and throughout our bodies that allow us to be male and female, yin and yang. It is in the understanding of our differences that can give us better knowledge into how to communicate better. So that we can appreciate one another on a more spiritual level rather than the emotional one, most of us are in.