We are at the center of every relationship that we have in our world.  When a relationship, be it friendship, partner, money, health, wealth, is off-kilter, we only need to look at ourselves in our own center, our own core, and know what needs to be tweaked.

So how to you get your tweak on?

I am going to speak about a partner relationship now, and these words are meant for every relationship.  When I started to date after my divorce, I was so excited for the experience.  I felt I had learned so much during my marriage, and was ready to “tackle” the dating realm, and tackle is the operative word :).

Being in relationship with these men who showed up for me presented many opportunities for growth.  I’m saying this in the kindest sense, but really I created a tornado effect, and my being displayed all sorts of “Auntie Em, Uncle Henry, it’s a twister.”  Thus, you can appreciate what I looked like in the scenes I was creating especially for me.

When you affirm love for yourself, then you don’t create tornadoes.  It’s through that misalignment that the tornadoes are felt, and it’s all done in consciousness.  We set up the contrast because we designed it this way so we would know who we are, and what experiences serves us. 

Affirming love means “I love myself as is.”  We are constantly tweaking our thoughts and feelings, and this will always be the case.  And when we learn to do this more and more, the adjustment in tweaking gets less and less.

What I mean is that we are “feeling” beings in that we do everything for the feeling of it.  So we’re constantly assessing how we’re feeling in each and every moment, and we do this in relationship to our action, our experience.  In being conscious, we allow the more appropriate feelings aligned with Source Energy to be in existence.

Be of service to yourself….

It’s interesting to think of it in this way, and I’ll tell you why.  My ex-husband is in Rotary, and they have a motto which says, “Service above self.“  I now have a different appreciation of service, and thus, don’t subscribe to this motto.  I believe you must be of service to yourself first.  From there you can set up being of service to others, and it will come from filling your love bucket up first, and then allowing the natural overflow to everything in your existence. 

Having said this, I offer a program called Girls Gone Wifi, How to Have a Blast with Online Dating.  In this program I go over specifics of how to be of service to you first, and then be able to attract an ideal partner.  In this way, you allow the natural love overflow I mentioned to touch every man you come in contact with.  It’s a much more conscious way to be with yourself, and then to be with others.

We discuss how to create a fun profile and picture, and create a fun profile and picture of your ideal man.  You’ll also learn how to communicate in a very profound way.  And since I’m a fun coach, we have a blast.  In addition, I use energy techniques that are fun to help you release any patterns that aren’t serving you well, and tweak ‘em. 

How long did it take me to attract my ideal man?

It took me two months when I tweaked serving myself first, and I can show you how easy and fun it is to do, and it will happen quickly when you affirm service to yourself first.  And from there, everyone will

Ready for your ideal relationship to appear?

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