Okay, now you know what the phrase "eye candy" means, right?  It means that a man has a beautiful woman on his arm, and the whole world goes "goo goo ga ga" over her because of her radiant beauty.  This in turn makes the man feel really good as he feels this beautiful woman is an extension of him.

Well, now, how can we captivate this imagery, and cast the same sort of "goo goo ga ga" on us so the whole world looks at our radiant beauty? 

It's "melt in your mouth easy":). 

You simply generate loving feelings for yourself and your entire world.  When you think about it, everything, including ourselves, started with loving energy.  And the loving energy is still there...might just be hiding real deep, but it is still there. 

Like Marianne Williamson illustrates, "There are two kinds of behaviors.  One is a call for love and one is an extension of love."  And we know both of these very well.  We know when we're an extension of loving energy because we're happy and joyful.  And we know when we're an extension of a call for love because we're scared and worried.

Thus, when you look at the latter explanation, it is remembering just to switch this energy and come into balance.  Being fearful doesn't generate love, only fear.  And we want to extend love to ourselves first, and then to the world.

Forgiveness helps...

Sometimes we're feeling fearful because we are not forgiving ourselves or others for past experience.  This can certainly happen for me.  When I've made decisions in regards to my business that I felt weren't the best, and I beat up on myself, I'm screaming, "Please love me anyway."  Who I really want to love me is ME.

You may relate to this....

Thus, now I know that there's nothing more important than loving myself and coming into balance.  So I switch my feelings in this moment, and give myself some good lovin' experiences.

One experience you can use is combine EFT with Ho'oponopono, and say, "I'm sorry.  Please forgive me.  Thank you.  I love you," and tap on the energy points.  By doing this you're anchoring in these statements at a cellular level so the conscious of who you are registers the new vibration of love. 

Now, you're ready to go out into the world, and expose yourself as the eye candy person with your mind candy techniques.  The world, the non-physical loving energy beings, will now recognize your vibration of love, and bring you "melt in your mouth" experiences.

Yummy, isn't it?

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